The Chosen

On Fear

--Michael Jordan

I never looked at the consequences of missing a big shot. Why?
Because when you think about the consequences, you always think
of a negative result.

Some people get frozen by the fear of failure. They get it from
peers or from just thinking about the possibility of negative results.
They might be afraid of looking bad or being embarrassed. I realized
that if I was going to achieve anything in life I had to be aggressive.
I had to get out there and go for it. I don't believe you can achieve
anything by being passive. I'm not thinking about anything except what
I'm trying to accomplish. Any fear is an illusion. You think something
is standing in your way but nothing is really there. What is there is
an opportunity to do your best and gain some success. If it turns out
my best isn't good enough, then at least I'll never be able to look back
and say I was too afraid to try. Failure always made me try harder the
next time.

That's why my advice has always been to "think positive" and find fuel
in any failure. Sometimes failure actually just gets you closer to where
you want to be. If I'm trying to fix a car, every time I try something
that doesn't work, I'm getting closer to finding the answer. The greatest
inventions in the world had hundreds of failures before the answers were
found.

I think fear sometimes comes from a lack of focus or concentration.
If I had stood at the free-throw line and thought about 10 million people
watching me on the other side of the camera lens, I couldn't have made
anything. So I mentally tried to put myself in a familiar place. I thought
about all those times I shot free throws in practice and went through the
same motion, the same technique that I had used thousands of times. 
You forget about the outcome. You know you are doing the right things. 
So you relax and perform. After that you can't control anything anyway. 
It's out of your hands, so don't worry about it.