整理自skykissx   還是一樣希望我沒有漏聽以及斷章取義孫老師的話
                                                                               
                                                                               
以下整理自孫中興談話
 

                                                                               
倒追日
                                                                               
這三個字是污名是要被打破的。然而,為什麼響應的人那麼少?
                                                                               
人不會輕易喜歡別人吧。
喜歡一個人是高尚的行為,為什麼和他說很可恥,很丟臉?
                                                                               
我們社會依然給女性很多社會壓力在這部分。學社會學的人會說社會造成的問題
就要靠集體以及制度的力量來解決,光靠個人是不夠的。
                                                                               
因此發起了這個活動。
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
這個活動的目的不見得是很赤裸的表現你對他的愛,也可以只是單純的想認識他。
男生可以這樣做,女生為什麼不可以?
                                                                               
你會說怎麼保證成功?
                                                                               
本來就沒有什麼保證成功啊!又不是補習班的保證班
                                                                               
                                                                                
不管結果如何  你敢勇敢的站出來說出你的愛,你就是成功的。
                                                                               
如果對方不珍惜你,對你很不屑。那你要和這種爛男人在一起幹什麼。
                                                                               
我們發他們爛男人卡。把卡丟到洗衣機,弄得爛爛的給他。
                                                                               
你還要在這上面浪費多少時間?你一生能愛幾個人?
                                                                               
萬一你明天就死了怎麼辦?
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
有一個學生來問我說,老師我喜歡的女生有男朋友了怎麼辦
                                                                               
我就說和他說阿。學生很緊張的說,
老師!這是橫刀奪愛耶!
                                                                               
我聽了超想笑
                                                                               
你刀子在哪?你又確定你奪的到喔
                                                                                
自大妄想症
                                                                               
                                                                               
你就只是傳達你的心意,就這麼簡單。
                                                                               
                                                                               
那你到底在猶豫什麼?我們花了很多時間在那麼簡單的事情上糾纏
                                                                               
                                                                               
表白是個最好檢視自己的機會
                                                                               
被告白也是件難得的事。自己竟然能被人喜歡。
                                                                               
這是無上的光榮啊!

                                                                               
喜歡一個人不需要準備嗎  送禮物要送到心坎裡否則不用送
                                                                               
如果你有機會和你喜歡的人用15分鐘介紹自己
                                                                               
你會怎麼說?
                                                                                
我總是知道天使出現時就要快點許願
                                                                               
現在天使已經出現兩次(指著倒追日的牌子)
                                                                               
明年最後一次,但仍然有人要錯過。
                                                                               
                                                                               
在外國舉辦這種活動是笑話啊,
可能我是從23世紀來的,你們沒辦法接受我的想法。
                                                                               
                                                                               
接著有人提到為什麼不能間接一點?


孫中興回答到:                                                                               

間接已經有人在作了,我不需要加劇現實的狀況啊,我要打破它。
                                                                               
                                                                                
在一百以前的時代 裹小腳
                                                                               
直到有一天有一群人提出小腳是不合理的,然後推動
                                                                               
放足
                                                                               
                                                                               
到現在沒有一個人有纏足
                                                                               
                                                                               
有個黑人羅莎派克改變了黑人的命運
以前黑人只能作公車後面不能作前面
                                                                               
因為他的堅持所以改變了
有一個柯媽媽因為自己的小孩被撞死,平常人鬧理賠就算了
他一個人十幾年來一直站在國民黨中央黨部前,從李登輝時代就在
                                                                               
因為他,一個女人,或者說不是名人就只是一個人,柯媽媽
                                                                               
通過了機車責任強制險,改變了這個社會。
                                                                               
                                                                                
這些人的堅持改變了世界。你我的社會。
                                                                               
                                                                               
除了這個問題(女生),工學院男生的交友問題也很嚴重
                                                                               
台大電機系幾乎沒有什麼社交活動  醫學系的到大五後也幾乎沒有什麼時間
                                                                               
那這些人成為工程師 醫師年收入百萬 但感情生活的經營
                                                                               
誰教他們?
                                                                               
那天我去工學院演講,院長還問我可不可以寫一個愛情的sop(標準作業程序)
這樣就能解決大家問題了
                                                                               
                                                                               
問題是有那麼神嗎?
                                                                               
                                                                               
我們大部分的人,大部分的學生都不喜歡自己
要藉由別人的喜歡和肯定才會喜歡自己。
                                                                               
                                                                                
誰站在你身邊不重要,重點是你自己有沒有站在你自己身邊。
                                                                               
                                                                               
台灣社會,大家不喜歡說好話,稱讚別人,這也難怪我們都沒自信。
我在美國讀書的四年聽過的好話大於我在台灣的26年,難怪老美那麼有自信了。
                                                                               
                                                                               
其實我想證明不一定是長得帥的男生是最受女生歡迎的,可惜這個活動不踴躍,
有可能一個平凡的男生發現有女生喜歡他,發出「怎麼會」的想法。
                                                                               
                                                                               
他就因此而變成一個更好的人了。
                                                                               
                                                                               
我現在怎樣不重要,重點是你看不看得到我的可塑性。
                                                                               
                                                                               
但大多數人都是看現在怎樣怎樣,愛情是會讓一個人成為更好的人。
                                                                               
                                                                               
我和張國榮同歲,看不出來吧!可是為什麼是他跳下去不是我跳下去?
好像應該是我跳吧。這其中一定有他深刻的道理。
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
原因是
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                        我怕高。
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                               
                                
好啦!這是剛剛想到的笑話,不是舊的。
                                                                               
                                                                               
愛情是會讓一個人成為更好的人,甚至讓兩個人一起變好。
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
我想講的就是這個,辦活動的目的是這個。但似乎沒什麼人懂。
                                                                                
                                                                               





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